When it comes to weddings, it’s the little details that transform a beautiful day into an extraordinary memory. Every couple has a unique story, and as a wedding planner, I believe that story should be reflected in every moment — from the first welcome drink to the last dance.
One of the joys of planning is bringing together two different cultures and creating harmony between them. Food is often at the heart of this celebration. Imagine a cocktail hour where guests sip champagne alongside a refreshing cocktail that the couple first enjoyed together when they first met, or a dinner that blends classic French cuisine with the spices, flavours, and traditions of another culture.
English food has a less reputable image than French food – although being English I totally disagree – but the sad reality is in the depths of France – the image of English food is still not very high. So when we introduced a few English flavours to the canapés being served in a French chateau by a French caterer – the guests were delighted and even the French caterers were pleasantly surprised. Mini Yorkshire pudding with warm beef and horseradish sauce.
These thoughtful pairings delight the senses and honour both families.
Details extend beyond the menu. Guests arriving for the ceremony might be welcomed with fresh hand towels — a simple yet elegant gesture that sets the tone of care and hospitality. Or the favourite drink of a loved one unable to be at the celebrations. As glasses are raised during the welcome drink, the mood is set not just for celebration, but for connection.
The most powerful detail is the most personal. Writing handwritten letters to each guest is a lovely idea. Tucked into place settings or delivered privately, these notes of gratitude and love leave an impression far deeper than any decoration ever could.
Because in the end, weddings aren’t just about grand gestures. They are about crafting experiences where every thoughtful detail comes together to reflect love, culture, and connection — the true essence of a celebration.
